The Time Traveler’s Anchor: Grounding for Age-Regression Triggers
When an old wound is touched, the brain often performs a "temporal bypass," sending you back to the exact age you were when you first learned to fear that situation. In an instant, a competent adult can feel like a helpless toddler or a misunderstood teenager. Grounding is the process of reminding your nervous system that you have a "current" self who is safe and in control. Developmental Grounding Strategies 1. The "Current Capability" List (For Teen/School-Age Triggers) When you feel "small" or at the mercy of others, your brain has forgotten your adult resources. The Exercise: List three things you can do today that your "younger self" couldn't. Example: ...